Sitting cozy on the chaise with a big fleece blanket wrapped around me. This is me winding down from the day in the evenings. And you know what? I wouldn't change it. As I have transitioned into a new position at work, I find that I am using a lot more energy than before in my job in the office (and burning more calories!). It's interesting to me how one change to your day to day routine can totally affect the rest of your day. Don't get me wrong - I enjoy what I do, it is just interesting to see how my day to day activities are changed since my new switch. And it's a good change! I wonder what it would be like if we had kids and how that would change the mix as well! Just means I gotta manage my time a bit better.. let me explain with a visual.
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5:30am: wake up
6am: after a small snack - hitting the gym for 45 minutes
7am: shower
7:20am: breakfast and dressed
7:40am: leave for work
8a-12p: work
12p-1p: lunch hour - eat the lunch that I packed from home.
1p-5p: work
5:20p: wash a load of clothes
5:30p: help prep dinner + follow up on load of clothes.
6p-6:30p: dinner with Trav <3
6:30p-8p: lounge, tv, blog
8p: make lunch for next day
8:15p: some cleaning (dishes, straightening up things)
8:45p-9:30p: Bible time + reading
9:30-9:45p: get ready for bed
10p: lights out!
Yeah, um that whole wake up at 5:30 and gym before 7am will probably never happen unless I have this sudden amazing surge of energy at 5:30 in the morning. No way Jose. I so prefer our cozy, snuggly and warm bed in the wee hours of the mornings. But in my ideal world I would definitely be at the gym to start my day and get that part out of the way. After the work day would pass I would still be energized to throw in some laundry and (gasp!) help cook dinner. I'm far blessed to have a man that enjoys cooking and loves making good dinners for us. On second thought, maybe I wouldn't change that part.. ; ) I would love to have more time to get involved in The Word and do some type of a Bible study. This I feel is definitely one thing that I could involve myself in daily and I need to work on this for sure. I think it would be fair to say that a few of these things would not happen each and every day but
again - this is my Ideal. I enjoy a good routine. I have no idea how my parents (mom especially) worked 40 hours a week, kept up on laundry, cooked dinners and made sure we had all our needs met.
Moving along though, this is more how my day goes..
6:30am: first alarm goes off..
6:50am: second alarm goes off.. hit snooze.
7am: alarm off again - turn off and wake up.
7a-7:10a: wash face, browse internet and think about what's going on for the day.
7:15a: get dressed
7:20-7:30a: instant oatmeal and news
7:40a: leave for work
8a-12p: work
12p-1p: lunch hour - run out to grab something (subway or grocery store)
1-5p: work
5:20p: home! change to cozy clothes and chat with my love.
6p-6:30p: dinner with Trav (something he cooked)
7p: shower
7:30p: tv, lounge
9p: get ready for bed
10p: lights out!
I can be hard on myself, but I see the current day to day as less productive on the home front. Chores and cleaning that were easy to get done before tend to get pushed to the end of the week or just happen at half-pace. Though we keep a fairly clean and polished home, sometimes I wish I could keep it 'House Beautiful' all the time. I treasure the evening time to lounge and relax with my guy since it's our time in the day to be together (Travis leaves for work before I wake up). So to me, I'd rather leave the vacuuming to Saturday to sit and relax with T on the couch for a little bit.
I still find myself in the mindset of "what did I accomplish today? what could have gone better?" But in the end it is about how you spent your day and with whom. Life is too short to fixate on the to-do's of the day and what didn't happen. I need to remind myself of this and to spend my 'free' time doing things that will enrich my day to day more and not necessarily result in making a mental check mark on a list that repeats itself each week. You know what I mean??
And with that, it's time to snuggle up with the kitties and lounge because you know what? That is what is important to me in the moment. And that is what should matter most.
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